“I’ve played ALL of the dating games known to man: Don’t ever call him…EVER, pick up the phone and be assertive, get off the phone first, if he doesn’t call by Wednesday… be busy, look interested, appear aloof,and if he pulls back- let him. I’ve also tried all of the places to meet men: the grocery store, the book store, the gym, the bar, the dating service, the internet and prayer.

For as long as I can remember, all I ever wanted was love. But, I had a hard time attracting the right man for me because early on I decided the only man I could count on was myself.

And with that decision, I traded climbing the corporate ladder for finding a soul mate. After a decade of title striving and wild success, I somehow still felt as though something was missing. And I’d ask myself regularly, “Is this all there is?”

As I was consulting for these multi million dollar companies and being hired to “turn them around” I realized the key to success was…relationships. Not only was it the relationships the companies had with their team and their clients, but it was the intimate relationships those leaders had outside of work that affected the business’s effectiveness as well! Soon, I was coaching not just companies into success, but the individuals as well. And it felt amazing to see people have more success, more fulfilled lives and create the relationships they desired and deserved.

Now, having over a decade and a half of experience with thousands of people, I get it! I understand that there are common belief patterns that hold us back from being successful in relationships. We all have ways of thinking and believing that keep us stuck! And it is my mission, purpose and absolute joy to help people figure out what’s been holding them back so they can become, find and keep the love they seek.

I consider myself an intuitive relationship coach. Meaning~ I “Get it” and I “Get it” quickly. And my goal is to communicate in a way that allows others to “get it” and “Get it” quickly. I also think it’s important to walk your talk. So, it’s important to note that I’m planning my wedding this year. And He’s much more the man than I had ever hoped to be. I do love to laugh and I look forward to laughing, learning, growing, and sharing with you!

I don’t use tricks or tactics such as “wear a red dress, smile more, or learn to flirt. Here, we do the work necessary to make lasting change in your life. It is my absolute pleasure to guide you to a better life. I use a framework called the B.A.R. System coupled with a 4 step process to help you uncover what you want, why you don’t have it, and how to get it. You can choose to go through the process with a small group, one on one, or attend a seminar or workshop.

“Heidi Bilonick made sure that I always knew what I did well, and used that to show me how I could be even better! She made sure that anyone who worked with her was the best at what they did! Heidi cared about my growth as a human being and I will be always be grateful to her for that! Her ability to give me easy step-by -step guidance using a frame of reference that meant something to me, stays with me to this day, and is something I try to pass on to others! Heidi’s talent as a presenter and motivational speaker always blew me away! She never asked me to do anything she wasn’t fully ready to do herself!!”
Corporate Trainer

“Heidi is someone who made an impact on me, in both my professional and personal life. I came to know Heidi as a trainer and realized quickly, she was so much more. I consider her a mentor. Heidi is a great life coach because she helps you make your own path. She doesn’t preach about goals. She helps set them and helps you make them happen. She helped me set realistic goals and achieve them. A wise woman once told me…“Be true to your goals. Make and follow your own decisions. Never minimize your strengths or except your weaknesses. And above all else BE YOURSELF.” Thanks Heidi!
Truly
Relationship Ready

“Heidi is such an inspiration…I know she truly believes in me, and for that I am grateful! Not only does Heidi want me to be the best that I can be, but when I’m around her, I want to be the best that I can be!”
Weight Loss Coach

“Training was so much fun! I learned more than I did in any other class I have taken and I really stepped outside of my boundaries! I feel prepared to take on anything and take my team all the way!!!!.  Thank you for your help!”